Kalon Studios: Sustainably Produced and Designed Children's Furniture

Kalon Studios is a new company offering "design for a sustainable culture." Yes, their prices may send you into sticker shock. Their explanation: "In today’s world, sustainability is more than just being green. Rather, it has evolved into a belief system, an approach to living, being." Kalon Studios uses renewable, raw materials and food-grade oil finishes on their products. Although the prices are high, the company's children's products are designed to be versatile and multifunctional. For example, the Ioline Crib converts to a toddler bed, and the Ioline Changing Trunk can be used as a toy chest or reading bench. Kalon Studios believes that loss of aesthetics, chaos, and clutter do not have to rule family life, but sustainability and beauty can go hand in hand with parenthood. Their products are locally made in southern California.

To read more about the cost of sustainability, please visit our post on Green Options: Green Family Values: Why is Sustainability So Expensive?

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Fair Trade Sports Balls!

Fair Trade is a term often used in the sustainable, green community, and I remember first encountering it on chocolate and coffee labels. According to Alicia Erikson of Green Options, "The Fair Trade criteria (from the Fair Trade Federation) are:
Paying fair wages in local context;
Supporting participatory workplaces;
Ensuring environmental sustainability;
Supplying financial and technical support;
Respecting cultural identity;
Offering public accountability; and,
Educating consumers."

Fair trade certification has moved beyond chocolate and coffee, to sports balls! Fair Trade Sports offers numerous products you can purchase for your child with a clear conscious. We have tested the size 3 soccer ball, which my children adore. These high quality sports balls help at-risk youth around the globe. 100% after-tax profits from Fair Trade Sports goes to children's charities! In addition, all of the balls are stitched by adult workers paid fair wages in healthy working conditions. Buy purchasing Fair Trade Sports products, "Together we can break this cycle of poverty and oppression."

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Global Warming/Climate Change Responsible For Increase in Children's ER Visits

According to the Sierra Club, "Global warming is responsible for an increase in the number of children's hospital emergency room visits, according to a new University of Sydney report which shows that hospital admissions for fever soar as days get hotter. Children are especially at risk because they are less able to regulate their body temperature than adults. The study is the first to make a solid link between increasing temperatures and childhood illness."

It is not only children in third world countries that are being affected, it is all of our children. It's already 89 degrees today in Northern California and a forest fire watch has been issued!

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Play Silks Provide Boundless Opportunities for Dramatic Play

At an art teacher conference I attended, Play Silks were recommended as the only costume needed for classroom performing arts instruction. Children can make any costume using their imagination with Play Silks. Like blocks, Play Silks are truly open-ended and limitless for play. Magic Cabin offers a wide variety of choices for Play Silks. Here is the description from Magic Cabin, "More versatile than most toys, Play Silks can be used in a multitude of ways: as blankets, capes, curtains, doll carriers, costumes, flags, walls for forts...
Their versatility is matched only by their durability, which is truly remarkable for such a soft, fine fabric. Play Silks embody the notion of "the simpler, the better" in supporting children's natural, imaginative play, and they're also the ideal craft fabric for making angels, string puppets, capes, etc. Made in the USA for all ages."

Play Silks are expensive, but you and your child get a lot for the money. At about $11 piece (you do get a discount for buying a set), the cost of Play Silks kept me from buying them for many years. I wanted to make my own set, but time slipped away, and I realized I never would get around to actually doing it (I still haven't finished knitting the sweater I started for my daughter five years ago!). Since purchasing a set of Play Silks, I am very pleased with how they have contributed to my daughter's dramatic play. Just think, if you buy a set of Play Silks, you will not need to buy any dress up clothes from major corporations! Our Play Silks are a year old, and they show no signs of wear and tear.

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Breastfeeding Saves Lives!

A World Alliance for Breastfeeding Action (WABA) report issued in February states, "One million babies can be saved each year if they begin breastfeeding within one hour of birth." According to Mothering.com, "if all mothers began breastfeeding within the first hour it would save one million of the four million newborn deaths. This study from rural Ghana, based on 10,947 breastfed singleton infants, has shown that initiation of breastfeeding within the first hour of birth reduced the infants' risk of death. It also demonstrated a marked increase in risk with increasing delay in initiation. Overall late initiation (after day one) was associated with a 2.4-fold increase in risk. Giving pre-lacteal feeds, i.e. something other than mother's milk before beginning to breastfeed, also increased the risk of neonatal mortality. The study conducted on babies who survived day one clearly showed that 41% of all babies who die during 2 to 28 days of life can be saved by this simple intervention: beginning breastfeeding within one hour of birth. When the deaths of day one were included, it showed 22% of all neonatal (0-28 days) deaths could be reduced. In India, for example, this means 250,000 neonates can be saved from death annually by just this one act. Initiation of breastfeeding within the first hour of birth is the primary and most vital step towards reducing infant and under-five mortality, by reducing the overwhelmingly high neonatal mortality rate."

My breastfeeding days are over, which I solemnly miss. There is nothing sweeter than holding your child to your breast while they suckle the sustenance of life. For some children, they latch on immediately, still others struggle with the process. I recommended that all new mothers read The Nursing Mother's Companion,which was required reading by my midwives. The Nursing Mother's Companionprovides all the information you will need to deal with breastfeeding issues that may arise, as well as an appendix on drug safety while breastfeeding. The Nursing Mother's Companionmakes a great gift for a new mother! Of course, the La Leche League International is another great breastfeeding resource.

Woodkins: Better Than Paper Dolls

For my daughter's second birthday, a friend gave her a Woodkinsplay set. These wooden die cut dolls are designed for children four to seven years old; however, my daughter has enjoyed hers at a younger age and still plays with it today. Woodkinsoffers a great alternative to paper dolls, which are difficult for little hands to manipulate and are not durable. By lifting the wooden cover, children change the clothes, faces, etc. on the doll. Little swatches of cloth are placed below the cover, and when it is closed, the doll is dressed in a new outfit. You can layer the cloth swatches and easily add to the collection with scraps of cloth from home. This "sandwich" design is perfect for little hands developing fine motor skills.

There are over 73 Woodkinsproducts, so you will certainly find one to suit your child's imagination. Woodkinshas won many awards, and this collection of wooden collection of wooden “dressable” dolls provides children with endless opportunities for imaginative play. According to the product description, "With a closet full of colorful fabrics and interchangeable magnetic faces, kids can let their imaginations run wild—creating new looks, new moods and new stories for their dolls every time they play!"

Horrific Images of Gaza

My Persian friend sent me a link to these images of the medical crisis in Gaza. The images are disturbing, but they are real, and I feel like we need to look at these images to realize the horrors governments around the world impose on innocent people. For any parent that has had a child in the NICU, these images bring up memories of difficult times; however, I am so ever thankful that the hospital my son was treated in had paper towels, medicine, etc.

The neonatal ICU ward in Al Naser Hospital in Gaza City, Gaza Strip Occupied Palestinian Territory, May 13, 2006. Doctors at Al Naser do not even have paper towels to dry their hands with before assisting patients much less the essential sterilised linens needed to prevent infection and death in infants and those with with compromised immune systems. Many infants in the Neonatal ICU are suffering from severe bacterial infections due to the lack of sterilised equipment and linens.

GAZA CITY, GAZA STRIP OCCUPIED PALESTINIAN TERRITORY - May 8, 2006: An infant with a compromised immune system suffering from severe bacterial infections which were a result of the lack of sterile equipment in the hospital is treated in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit at Al Naser Hospital in Gaza City, Gaza Strip Occupied Palestinian Territory, May 8, 2006. Doctors at Al Naser do not even have paper towels to dry their hands with before assisting patients much less the essential sterilised linens needed to prevent infection and death in infants and those with with compromised immune systems. After the cessation of aid from America and EU countries, hospitals in Gaza have literally run out of medicine and supplies. Patients die on a daily basis from easily treatable conditions due to lack of supplies such as sterile linens, needles, medicine, chemotherapy treatments etc.

GAZA CITY, GAZA STRIP OCCUPIED PALESTINIAN TERRITORY - May 8, 2006: An infant severely dehydrated and near death is treated at Al Naser Hospital in Gaza City, Gaza Strip Occupied Palestinian Territory, May 8, 2006. This child has suffered malnutrition and dehydration due to the financial status of its family which has been without any salary for almost four months now. Hospitals are seeing a dramatic rise in cases of malnutrition and even starvation as local families run out of money, food and water. After the cessation of aid from America and EU countries, hospitals in Gaza have literally run out of medicine and supplies. Patients die on a daily basis from easily treatable conditions due to lack of supplies such as sterile linens, needles, medicine, chemotherapy treatments etc.

The Truth About Natural Beauty Products and California Baby Shampoo and Body Wash

Since Erin first alerted me to SLS in a comment on my previous baby soap recommendation, I've been exploring the beauty products my family uses. I've been surprised how many "natural" beauty products are not natural! You can read more about my discoveries at Green Options: Green Myth-Busting: "Natural" Beauty Products.

We have switched to California Baby Body Wash and Shampoo. Here is the product description:
A concentrated, gentle, non-stripping cleanser. The light & fresh calming essential oil blend adds to the bathing experience. Leaves hair noticeably shiny, soft and manageable. Our customers have reported excellent results with this shampoo & body wash in their fight against eczema and other skin sensitivities. Convenient heavy-duty pump dispenses a big glob of product in one easy push. Benefits & Features: * Cleansing agent: 100% Decyl polyglucose * No Sodium Lauryl Sulfate DEA or numbing agents. * No tears non-irritating non-stripping formula. Safe and gentle. * Two products in one--use head to toe. May be used for hair face and body. * Great for babies kids or adults with chemically sensitive skin. Will not irritate eczema or cradle cap reports of healing even stubborn cases. * Effective aromatherapy.

My son has extremely sensitive skin and suffers from eczema. Since switching to California Baby Body Wash and Shampoo, his eczema has disappeared! There are just a few minor red patches left where the skin is healing. I am amazed and suspect that SLS was causing his skin problems.

Skin Deep is a great resource for examining the potential hazards in beauty products. Products are rated from 1 to 10, with 10 being the highest hazard. California Baby Body Wash and Shampoo received a 2 (the super sensitive version earned a 1), compared to Johnson and Johnson's Baby Bath earning a score of 9! No wonder my son broke out in a horrible rash when they used Johnson's baby bath on him in the hospital after surgery. You can read more recommendations for baby products at Green Options.

LIttle Organic Gardeners Need Little Tools

Gardening season is in full swing, and my children love to be in the garden. One thing I have found vital to their gardening participation is appropriately sized garden tools. Magic Cabin offers Little Gardener Tools
. Both a small and large set are offered priced at $21.95 and $27.95 respectively. The small set of Little Gardener Tools
is on backorder until June 4, but the large set is currently available. The Little Gardener Tools
are real tools designed for real work! Here is the description from Magic Cabin:
Budding farmers can dig right in with these pint-size, perfectly proportioned garden tools that are made for real work, with hardwood handles and enameled metal implements.

The Large Garden Tools Set includes a spade, leaf rake, garden rake and hoe, (they store nicely in our Handy Tool Stand).

The new Small Garden Tools Set comes with three hand tools - a spade, shovel and rake - tucked neatly into a colorful watering can along with a pair of kid-size cotton-knit work gloves.

For tips on gardening with children, please visit our post on Green Options: Green Family Values: 10 Tips for Organic Gardening with Children.

The Controversy Around Juice

If your experiences are like mine, you have been warned about giving your child juice. These warnings suggest juice leads to obesity and tooth decay (which is true if you send your child to bed with a sippy cup of juice). I have always significantly watered juice down for my toddlers. The Organic Consumer's Association (OCA) has debunked the myth that juice causes obesity. "Contrary to popular belief, drinking pure 100 percent fruit juice does not make young children overweight or at risk for becoming overweight, new research shows. Pure fruit juice provides essential nutrients and, in moderation, may actually help children maintain a healthy weight." The culprit is all of those juices that aren't 100% juice, especially if they contain high fructose corn syrup.

There is controversy as to whether food products, such as Seven Up, should be labeled as "all natural" for containing high fructose corn syrup. Many of the sodas sold in health food stores also contain this substance. According to the Washington Post, "Made from corn starch, high-fructose corn syrup is a thick liquid that contains two basic sugar building blocks, fructose and glucose, in roughly equal amounts. Sucrose, most familiar to consumers as table sugar, is a larger sugar molecule that breaks down into glucose and fructose in the intestine during metabolism....Today, sweeteners made from corn are the leader, racking up $4.5 billion in annual sales and accounting for 55 percent of the sweetener market. That switch largely reflects the steady growth of high-fructose corn syrup, which climbed from zero consumption in 1966 to 62.6 pounds per person in 2001."

The OCA advised to avoid "fruit juice scams":
Large beverage manufacturers are notorious for putting labels on their products that mislead consumers into believing that these junk-food drinks are pure fruit or else contain more juice than they really have. If you are shopping for 100% pure fruit juice, here's how to avoid getting scammed:

*Always read the ingredient label on the back of the product. If there's anything other than fruit juice in the product, it must be listed there.
*"Made with REAL Fruit Juice" could mean it really only has a small percentage of fruit juice.
*All beverages that imply they contain juice must declare the percentage of juice on the information label near the top of the Nutrition Facts panel.
*If a product is labeled as Fruit drink, juice beverage, juice cocktail or "ade" -- the product is likely full of artificial sweeteners and contains very little juice.
*Oftentimes a "100% juice" product contains juice fillers. Read the ingredient label, and you'll frequently find your cranberry juice, for example, is mostly apple juice.
*Keep in mind that conventional fruits and juices contain pesticide residues, and that industrial scale fruit production is an environmental disaster. Protect your health and the health of the planet by consuming organic fruits and fruit juices.

Giant Bugs on the Floor!

I still remember the day my daughter graduated from wooden peg puzzles to real puzzles with interlocking pieces. It felt like a rite of passage, as she explored the spatial relationships and put images together. My daughter's first puzzle was the Melissa and Doug Bugs Floor Puzzle. Three years later, this puzzle is still a favorite, and the large pieces are easy for little hands. When put together, the Melissa and Doug Bugs Floor Puzzlemeasures 46.5 inches wide! Made of 24 heavy grade cardboard pieces, this puzzle holds up well to repeated use. Melissa and Doug make many other wonderful large full puzzles, including wooden versions that are more expensive. The Melissa and Doug Bugs Floor Puzzle is affordable at about $10.

Please visit our biweekly post on GNM Parents: A Little Greener: Forgo the Amusement Park and Take Your Family Camping!

Seaweed Snack for Your Children

My children love to eat sushi, but we can't always make it or run out to a sushi bar. A great alternative is to snack on organic nori sheets. This simple snack is easy to take in the car, pack in lunches, etc. Nori is the most nutritious seaweed and contains as much protein as soybeans! According to Takaokaya, "Nori contains 12 kinds of vitamins including group A and B vitamins. Nori is called "The Reservoir of Vitamins" because few other foods are as much in vitamins as nori is.

Vitamin A --You can consume enough vitamin A per day with just two sheets of nori.
Vitamin B --Two sheets of nori also contain Vitamin B1 and B2 in amounts equivalent to 50~60 grams of pork, a sufficient daily amount.
Vitamin C --Nori has twice the vitamin C as the same amount of tangerines do. In general, vitamin C is easily destroyed by heat, but in the case of nori, vitamin C is stronger and is retained even when heated.
Iron --Two sheets of nori contain an amount of iron equal to 600 cc of milk or one egg."

More Bad News: Your Child's Car Seat May Be Toxic

We place our children in car seats to keep them safe, yet these very car seats may be full of toxic chemicals that could make our children sick. A new report from the Ecology Center was released on Wednesday. "Car seats save lives. It’s absolutely essential that parents put their children in them while driving," said Jeff Gearhart, the Ecology Center's Clean Car Campaign Director. "However, some car seats are safer than others when it comes to chemical composition. Healthycar.org makes it easy for parents to choose the least toxic car seat for their child." Chemicals tested for include: bromine (associated with brominated flame retardants); chlorine (indicating the presence of polyvinyl chloride, or PVC and plasticizers); lead; and heavy metal allergens. Such chemicals have been linked to major health problems such as liver, thyroid and developmental problems in children. Children have the highest exposure and are the most vulnerable population in terms of exposure to chemical-laden dust and inhaling toxic fumes, since their systems are still developing. The Ecology Center tested 62 brand new car seats, some of which tested very low for toxic content, while others were saturated. "The study found that the best seats had no brominated flame retardants, no PVC and low levels of other chemicals tested. Over 40% of seat cushions tested contained no brominated flame retardants and 77% of the seats were free of PVC-plastic. However, over 1/3 of all seats tested had one or more components which contained higher levels of toxic chemicals. A complete ranking of all of the car seats that were tested can be found at www.healthycar.org." Parents are advised to always leave a window cracked open in the car, to not use the car seat outside of the car to minimize exposure, and to avoid leaving the car seats in the sun.

Of my children's two car seats, both received the worse overall scores! We will be buying the Britax Parkway Booster Car Seat for my son and the Evenflo Big Kid Booster Car Seatfor my daughter. The Britax seat has more neck and head support, which I like for my three year old, but I don't think my five year old daughter would be comfortable in this seat, as she is not use to such support. This is an extra expense I had not anticipated, but my children's health is at stake. I am so tired and angry over the recent reports of toxic substances in children's products, that I have been moved to start a petition to the Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC). Please sign the petition asking the CPSC to protect our children from toxins in car seats. Thank you Jeremiah of Z Recommends for alerting us to this issue!

For more information:
healthycar.org press release
2006/2007 Guide to Child Car Seats
Chemicals used on car seats 'toxic' to children, study warns
Is Your Child's Car Seat Poisonous?

5/22 Update: I am returning our new car seats. The fumes from them are horrible, and I feel our older car seats are better, as hopefully they are done outgassing.

Easy Make Snake Large Wooden Beads Develop Fine Motor Skills

We have received our replacement toy for the recalled puzzle Sounds On the Go. The Easy Make Snakewas the only natural, wooden toy option for a replacement. At first, I was concerned this toy would be too simple for my children, as it is rated for children 18 months and older, which means the parts do not pose a choking hazard. When our Easy Make Snakearrived yesterday, both of my children were enthralled. My 2.5 year old son, especially, spent one continuous hour playing with it before dinner time. He even insisted on taking some of the wooden parts to bed. Lacing large beads is excellent for fine motor development and eye coordination, in fact, most states list it as a benchmark for fine motor preK standards. The Easy Make Snakeprovides a strong wooden needle attached to the string, which allows children to repeatedly build the body of the snake. Once the snake is built, children can pull it around making the /s/ sound of a snake, which is a later developmental sound that many children have articulation difficulties because of their tongue placement. The Easy Make Snakeis an affordable, natural, wooden toy at about $13.00, and it is made in Thailand.

Gap Kids: Kids Clothes Made By Kids

Gap Unveils New 'For Kids By Kids' Clothing Line
The Onion, always entertaining with a hint of truth, put together this video about Gap's use of child labor. In 2004, the Gap admitted to child labor violations.

Magic Cabin Is Having a Sale!

Magic Cabin is having a sale! For three days only, select summer items are 20% off. One of my favorite dress up items are the Silk Rainbow Cape, Skirt, and Garland
. We have these beautiful dress up clothes at my preschool. For four years, the Silk Rainbow Cape, Skirt, and Garland
have been played with daily by many children, and these silk rainbow dress up clothes show no signs of wear and tear. Magic Cabin states these silk products fit children ages 3 to 9, but 2 year olds wear them in my preK program. Silk is a natural fiber that inspires children's imaginations! At 20%, Magic Cabin's Silk Rainbow Cape, Skirt, and Garland
is a great deal. Just enter the promo code MCMD6 when you checkout.

Don't forget to visit Green Options to read Green Family Values: Natural Baby Beauty Products. Thank you to Erin for alerting me to the problems with sodium laureth sulfate, so I could amend my recommendations.

Target Target for Phasing Out PVC May 24th!

Target lags behind other major retailers in phasing out PVC, and the Center for Health, Environment, and Justice (CHEJ) is hosting a PVC day of action on May 24th. You can sign up for the event or organize your own by clicking here.

PVC has been called the "Poison Plastic". According to CHEJ, "PVC (polyvinyl chloride) plastic, commonly referred to as vinyl, is one of the most hazardous consumer products ever created. PVC is dangerous to human health and the environment throughout its entire life cycle, at the factory, in our homes, and in the trash. Our bodies are contaminated with poisonous chemicals released during the PVC lifecycle, such as mercury, dioxins, and phthalates, which may pose irreversible life-long health threats. When produced or burned, PVC plastic releases dioxins, a group of the most potent synthetic chemicals ever tested, which can cause cancer and harm the immune and reproductive systems. PVC is useless without the addition of a plethora of toxic additives, which can make the PVC product itself harmful to consumers. These chemicals can evaporate or leach out of PVC, posing risks to children and consumers.... One of the most common toxic additives is DEHP, a phthalate that is a suspected carcinogen and reproductive toxicant readily found in numerous PVC products. Children can be exposed to phthalates by chewing on vinyl toys. While it is still legal for US retailers to sell PVC children’s and baby toys containing dangerous phthalates, the European Parliament voted in July, 2005 to permanently ban the use of certain toxic phthalates in toys."

The recalled lead bibs from Wal-mart are one such example of dangerous PVC products for children.

Natural Soap For Your Baby and Child

If you are making the switch to a greener life for your children, a good place to begin (besides growing and buying organic food) is with beauty products. Baby and children's skin is very sensitive and can often erupt in rashes from commercial products designed for them. My son's skin is especially sensitive, and thankfully, he was born into a family that had already discovered the best natural beauty products. Our family has tried many natural baby soaps, including bar soaps, and have found the best value and product to be Healthy Times Honeysuckle Baby Bath. At only $2.58 a bottle, this liquid soap is affordable and gentle. My son, who developed a horrible rash from Johnson's Baby Soap in the hospital after surgery, has never had even the slightest reaction to Healthy Times Honeysuckle Baby Bath. We use Healthy Times Honeysuckle Baby Bath on both of our children as shampoo and body soap. Liquid soap lasts longer in the bathtub and is easy to travel with, as well. Healthy Times also makes shampoo, conditioner, and sweet violet lotion. Healthy Times makes natural beauty products affordable for every family.

A Prayer for Mother's Day

Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers, fathers, and children of the world. Last night, I watched the Children of Beslan. Many children were left orphaned when their parents died in the siege,and many families lost their precious children. Once again I am thankful for the security, peace, and stability my family has experienced.

One of the blessings of a midwife is the continued presence in her life as your children grow. Our midwife shared with me standingwomen.org and their plans for today, based on the story of The Great Silent Grandmother Gathering: A Story for Anyone Who Thinks She Can't Save the World. "We will be standing for the world's children and grandchildren, and for the seven generations beyond them. We dream of a world where all of our children have safe drinking water, clean air to breathe, and enough food to eat. A world where they have access to a basic education to develop their minds and healthcare to nurture their growing bodies. A world where they have a warm, safe, and loving place to call home. A world where they don't live in fear of violence--in their home, in their neighborhood, in their school, or in their world. This is the world of which we dream. This is the cause for which we will stand. If you share this dream, please stand with us for five minutes of silence at 1 p.m. your local time on May 13, 2007, in your local park, school yard, gathering place, or any place you deem appropriate, to signify your agreement with this statement. We ask you to invite the men and boys who you care about to join you. We ask that you bring bells to ring at 1 p.m. to signify the beginning of the five minutes of silence and to ring again to signify the end of the period of silence. During the silence, please think about
what you individually and we collectively can do to attain this world. If you need to sit rather than stand, please feel free to do so. Afterwards, hopefully you and your loved ones can talk together about how we can bring about this world"

Previously, I thought that Mother's Day was just another Hallmark holiday, and that we need to honor our mothers every day. I have since learned that Mother's Day was created to unite women in peace after the Civil War. In 1870, social activist and poet Julia Ward Howe wrote the original Mother's Day Proclamation:

Arise then...women of this day!
Arise, all women who have hearts!
Whether your baptism be of water or of tears!
Say firmly:
"We will not have questions answered by irrelevant agencies,
Our husbands will not come to us, reeking with carnage,
For caresses and applause.
Our sons shall not be taken from us to unlearn
All that we have been able to teach them of charity, mercy and patience.
We, the women of one country,
Will be too tender of those of another country
To allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs."

From the bosum of a devastated Earth a voice goes up with
Our own. It says: "Disarm! Disarm!
The sword of murder is not the balance of justice."
Blood does not wipe our dishonor,
Nor violence indicate possession.
As men have often forsaken the plough and the anvil at the summons of war,
Let women now leave all that may be left of home
For a great and earnest day of counsel.
Let them meet first, as women, to bewail and commemorate the dead.
Let them solemnly take counsel with each other as to the means
Whereby the great human family can live in peace...
Each bearing after his own time the sacred impress, not of Caesar,
But of God -
In the name of womanhood and humanity, I earnestly ask
That a general congress of women without limit of nationality,
May be appointed and held at someplace deemed most convenient
And the earliest period consistent with its objects,
To promote the alliance of the different nationalities,
The amicable settlement of international questions,
The great and general interests of peace.

Mother's Day is about peace, not flowers and gifts. As Gloria Steinem said, "Mother's Day is a an antiwar day, and antiwar statement." Let is us send prayers of peace to to all of the mothers whose children are fighting in wars, growing up with wars raging around them, or with terrorism threatening their safety. Let's pray for strength, peace and hope for this Mother's Day. I would like to send a special prayer to my friend Jen, who lost her husband and father of two small children on this day two years ago.

Motherhood Manifesto

Tomorrow is Mother's Day, and Moveon.org and MomsRising have partnered to offer free copies of the DVD Motherhood Manifesto. Did you know that "only four countries in the world—Lesotho, Swaziland, Papua New Guinea and the United States fail to provide paid maternity leave to all workers, and mothers in the United States are only half as likely as non-mothers to be hired for the same job?" M is for maternity and paternity leave, O is for open flexible work, T is TV and after school programs, H is for health care for all kids, E is for excellent childcare, R is for realistic and fair wages, and HOOD is for visit the neighborhood. Put it all together and you have MOTHERHOOD! Anne Crittendon writes, "The most important job, even economists agree, is raising the next generation. This is still predominantly women’s work, and they are still unpaid, badly paid, and often disrespected for doing it. Caring for others, especially for children, is so taken for granted, especially in the U.S., that having a baby is the single worst financial decision an American woman can make......Social policy does little to insure these risks or reward mothers for their economic contribution. Nannies earn Social Security credits; mothers do not. They earn a zero for every year they spend caring for family members. This means that motherhood is the single biggest risk factor for poverty in old age." The Motherhood Manifesto will also be playing on some PBS stations.

Natural Storage for Natural Toys

If you have been reading Eco Child's Play for awhile, you know we hate plastic toys. When it comes to toy storage, our loathing of plastic influences our choices. We have found that sea grass baskets are a great alternative to plastic bins for toy storage. Sea Grass Baskets with Wood Handles are more aesthetically pleasing than plastic bins, they are sturdy, and they can be reused for other household items. You can get a Sea Grass Basket in many sizes, shapes, with lids, etc.

Sea grass is very important to coastal ecosystems. It grows underwater in extensive beds that harbor hundreds of species. I hope that the sea grass baskets we have purchased were made from sustainably harvested sea grass. This may be something to check on before you purchase your own baskets for toy storage. Seagrass-Watch.org may be of some assistance.

A Little Greener: The Benefits of Cloth Diapers

I will be writing a biweekly piece on GNM Parents as part of a trade with Green Options. Please visit GNM Parents and read A Little Greener: The Benefits of Cloth Diapers. While you are there, take a look around GNM Parents, "a multi-media channel featuring blogs, podcasts and video, aiming to provide a full and rich content experience for parents at all stages of parenthood. Our goal is to inform, entertain and engage the community." I have enjoyed discovering this great site!

Iraqi Children Paying the Highest Cost of War

According to Democracy Now!:
One In Eight Iraqi Children Die Before the Age of Five
Iraq's infant mortality rate has soared by 150 percent since 1990 according to a new report by the charity Save the Children. One in eight Iraqi children now die of disease or violence before the age of five. In 2005 alone, 122,000 Iraqi children died before reaching their fifth birthday. Save the Children said Iraq's child-survival ranking is now the lowest in the world.

This just makes me so sad. The Iraqi children are innocent victims of this unjustifiable war, and I don't blame our troops, but the people that put them there. I look at my five year old daughter, and I feel blessed to live where I live, yet I can't shake the guilt that my country is behind these children's deaths. For more information, click here.

Please visit Green Options to read Green Family Values: Are Our Children Lab Rats?

Whimisical Wooden Instruments

Although I am not a musician, I believe it is important to provide children with musical instruments for their play. Many of the oral muscles used in playing these instruments are necessary for speech development. Exhaling through an instrument is great practice for making sounds such as /h/. My daughter's first instruments were the wooden recorder and harmonica from Magic Cabin. Fours years later, these instruments are still played on a weekly basis, and when given a choice, she has given these quality wooden instruments for gifts. Children are attracted to the beautiful colors on the instruments, and since they are made of wood, the music produced from them is not annoying to adults. Magic Cabin's Colorful Wooden Instruments
are made in the Philippines and are real instruments, not toys.

Please visit our guest post on GNM Parents: The Benefits of Cloth Diapers.

Can You Assign a Monetary Value to Motherhood?

Mother's Day is approaching, which means someone, somewhere will try to assign a salary to motherhood to demonstrate the value of this job. Every time I hear this news, at first I applaud the effort, then I wonder, what's the point? Isn't motherhood, or fatherhood, beyond monetary value? Isn't it priceless?

Salary.com surveyed mothers, and according to CNN, came up with these results: "The typical mother puts in a 92-hour work week, the company concluded, and works at least 10 jobs. In order of hours spent on them per week, these are: housekeeper, day-care center teacher, cook, computer operator, laundry machine operator, janitor, facilities manager, van driver, chief executive officer and psychologist. By figuring out the median salaries for each position, and calculating the average number of hours worked at each, the firm came up with $138,095 -- three percent higher than last year's results." Woohoo, Mom got a three percent raise! What about experience, education, etc.? Don't these factors earn higher salaries in the work place? How does this figure for moms? You can view CNN's slide show on the evolution of motherhood here. Thank you Steve for sending me this information.

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ALERT: Wal-Mart Recalls Baby Bibs for DANGEROUS LEAD Content!

The nightmare of unsafe levels of lead in children's products continues. Now, Wal-Mart is recalling baby bibs sold under the name "Baby Connection." These bibs are cloth on the top, but they are backed with dangerous PVC vinyl. When you visit the Wal-Mart's recall page, you are greeted with this smiling man..what's up with that? Sorry, we exposed your child to dangerous levels of lead, but I am smuggly smiling at you.

I don't shop at Wal-Mart, in fact, I hate the overconsumerism and sweat labor this store promotes. I have viewed the company's recent efforts at greenwashing to be profit driven to expand their customer base. A grass roots effort has successfully stopped Wal-Mart from entering the town we go to for services. Eureka still has Ma and Pa shops, with very little chain stores, and we want to keep it that way. Honestly, I can say I have only been inside a Wal-Mart store three times, but I know plenty of families that rely on the low prices for survival. Wal-Mart Watch provides more information on the company.

A grandmother discovered the lead in her grandson's bib. After hearing about the lead in children's lunchboxes, she bought a lead test kit (similar to what we did for my daughter's backpack). The California-based Center for Environmental Health did more tests on the bibs and found lead levels in some Wal-Mart bibs more than 16 times the legal limit for lead in paint! That's right, 16 TIMES THE LEGAL LIMIT FOR LEAD IN PAINT! How could this be? The CEH writes, "'These vinyl bibs pose a lead poisoning threat to infants and toddlers who are at the most vulnerable age,' said Caroline Cox, Research Director at CEH and author of a report on lead in baby bibs released by CEH today. 'As every parent knows, young children commonly chew and suck on their bibs, so if the bib is contaminated, children are being directly exposed to lead.'" Of course, The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission claims the lead bibs are safe. They issued a statement on Wednesday saying that the bibs were safe if in good condition. If a bib "deteriorates to the point that a baby could pull or bite off and swallow a piece of vinyl containing the lead, then the amounts of lead consumed could approach levels of concern."

Why do they put lead in baby bibs? To make them softer, of course! Here's an alternative....organic cotton! Bumkins Organic Cotton Bibs offer softness without lead (imagine that),and you don't have to worry about your child chewing on the edges or eating food that has fallen on the bib. Bumkins Organic Cotton Bibs are the way to go if you have a child learning to eat.

Great Children's Literature: Cinder Edna

One of our readers recommended Cinder Edna, a wonderful, more feminist version of the classic tale of Cinderella by Ellen Jackson. There are many different versions of Cinderella from various cultures, but the common theme is that a poor girl's only way our of her deplorable situation is the handsome prince, not Cinder Edna.

Cinder Edna does find a prince, but her happiness is not dependent upon it. Her life is contrasted to her neighbor Cinderella's. The two girls have many things in common, like being forced to work for their wicked stepmothers and stepsisters, but Cinder Edna learns skills from these experiences and earns a little money on the side too. She doesn't depend upon a fairy godmother to give her a dress for the ball, but she puts one on lay away. Cinder Edna doesn't ride a pumpkin turned into a carriage, but she takes the bus, which also leaves at midnight from the ball. And Cinder Edna does not wear glass slippers, but she wears her comfortable loafers instead. While Cinderella ends up marrying the boring, handsome prince and living in the grand palace, "the girl who had been known as Cinder Edna ended up in a small cottage with solar heating. During the day she studied waste disposal engineering and cared for orphaned kittens." Cinder Edna marries the handsome prince's brother, who is in charge of the recycling plant.

My daughter was first introduced to the world of princesses from her best friend, much to my displeasure. I was concerned about the message many of these tales send to children about how happiness is achieved and the value of beauty. I would try to have conversations with her about this subject, but at three years old, she couldn't grasp what I was saying. I was torn between letting her have her own interests and the antifeminism in such stories, but my anxieties were relieved when I listened to her princess dramatic play full of her own ideas. Now that she is older, she is able to laugh and enjoy Cinder Edna, although she still insisted Cinderella lived happily ever after in the grand palace with the boring, handsome prince.

If you are looking for another funny version of Cinderella, check out Bubba the Cowboy Prince. Bubba is rescued from his evil stepfather and stepbrothers by the Dolly Parton look alike Miz Lurleen.

The Klamath River Needs Your Help!

Every child should have a river in their backyard to frolic in, and we are fortunate to have a tributary of the Klamath River below our house. The Klamath River is a sick river, like many rivers in our country, and four dams contribute greatly to the problem. Toxic algae blooms make it unsafe for swimming in late summer, as well as warm river temperatures caused by the dams and water diversion have caused massive fish kills. Up to 90% of Klamath tributary water flows has been diverted in some years to farmers growing subsidized potatoes and beets, but new regulations are changing this somewhat. The dams are the problem, and Pacific Corp, a Warren Buffet company that owns the dams, is currently in their 50 relicensing phase on the dams. The courts have ruled that the fish must be protected by fish ladders or dam removal. Dam removal is the cheapest and most ethical option; however, Pacific Corp has suggested the fish be trapped and trucked around the dams. In addition, the native people are suffering greatly from the loss of this crucial part of their diet. I understand the plight of the farmers; however, couldn't our government subsidize them not to grow? The fisherman didn't receive any subsidies for the closed salmon season last year, but they were offered low interest loans if they would use their boats as collateral.

The river is a big part of our life. We constantly watch its levels rise in winter and enjoy its cool water in the hot, summer months. Both of my blessing ways were held on the black sandy shore, as well as every birthday party for my children. Our family is also financially supported by sustainable ocean fishing, of which didn't exist last year due to low numbers in the Klamath River.

You can help save the Klamath! It is time to make some noise! You can take action at American Rivers!
For more information:
San Francisco Chronicle
Times-Standard

Possessed Puzzle Recall

Z Recommends has a monthly feature highlighting toy recalls. The possessed puzzle I had previously written about has been recalled. Sounds on the Go and Sounds on the Farm have been recalled, not for driving parents insane, but for the puzzle piece knobs that can come off and pose a choking hazard. About 78,500 products are affected. There have been no injuries reported. According to the Consumer Product Safety Commission, "Consumers should immediately take this toy away from children and contact Small World Toys to obtain a free replacement toy." I have emailed puzzlerecall@smallworldtoys.com and will let you know the response.

Here is the response:
Dear Consumer,

Thank you for contacting Small World Toys. We are voluntarily recalling the Puzzibilities/Ryan’s Room Sounds on the Farm (Item#24101) & Sounds on the Go Puzzles (Item#24102) because the knobs on the pieces may come off and present a possible choking hazard. The puzzles are identifiable by the wooden knobs, names of the puzzles on the top of the puzzle boards, & the respective item numbers on the lower center portion of the puzzle board. Please indicate which of the two items you have, and, if you have more than one puzzle, the quantities in your possession.

Update: 4/25/07

On Wednesday 04/25/2007 our recall website will begin taking orders online, please visit this link and place your order online for prompt confirmation of participation in the recall and to receive your replacement sooner.

http://recalls.smallworldtoys.com


Please take the puzzle away from children and destroy or dispose of it. Also, please provide your name, address, email address, and telephone number. In turn we will be providing a replacement product comparable in price, and appropriate for your child’s current age. Unfortunately, we are unable to provide a monetary refund. Please allow 4-6 weeks for processing after your information is received, due to the high volume of inquiries.

Three toys are being offered as replacements, and only one of these products is wooden. You can view the replacement products here.

Don't forget to read Green Family Values on Green Options this week!

When You Have a Little Girl....Ecofriendly Nail Polish

As a green parent, I am sometimes torn between allowing my daughter to explore aspects of beautification she sees in our culture and promoting her natural beauty. Even though I don't wear makeup or nail polish, when Grandma visits, my daughter is drawn to her fancy nails. I finally broke down and bought my daughter nail polish at a local health food store. I don't want to be the green parent Nazi, which I already tend to be about organic foods and plastic toys, so finding a less harmful nail polish was essential. According to Ideal Bite, several safer nail polishes exist. Pthalates in nail polish, also found in plastic toys, can cause birth defects. In fact, the Environmental Working Group advises "women of childbearing age to avoid using nail polish that contains a chemical that has been shown to cause birth defects in laboratory animals." "We think that women of childbearing are should avoid all exposures to dibutyl phthalate when they're considering becoming pregnant, when they're pregnant or when they're nursing," Houlihan said.

The Ideal Bite recommends these products:
SpaRitual Nail Lacquer: 72 different hues of vegan, phthalate-free polish ($10).
Honeybee Gardens Nail Enamel

Even these products are not 100% safe. You can check the safety of health and beauty products at the Environmental Working Group's (EWG) website Skin Deep, in which very specific information is given on many alternative and mainstream products. Honeybee Gardens Nail Enamel got the lowest safety concern vote from EWG.

And the Winner is........

Congratulations Adrienne! You've won our Eco Child's Play hemp shopping bag! We hope you will find this product as useful as we do.

Adrienne has two blogs: baby toolkit and A Few More Pages: Life With Books. Baby Toolkit is about "Geek parents writing about baby gear." We all have a lot to learn from geeks! I found the recent post on emergency room and hospital visits very interesting, as with my son's heart condition, we have spent more time in the hospital than I like. Look for an upcoming Eco Child's Play post on how to stay green in the hospital.

If you didn't win, we hope you will enter our monthly drawing this month. Remember, all you have to do is leave a comment to one of our posts during the month of May to be entered (I hope Adrienne will post a comment about her Eco Child's Play hemp bag, after she receives it). Also, you can purchase your own affordable hemp shopping bags from ReusableBags.com features high-quality, reusable shopping bags that will help you eliminate hundreds, if not thousands, of those plastic and paper shopping bags choking our planet. It’s an easy way to do your part! Good luck, and thank you to all of our readers that left comments during the month of April. Your comments have really enriched the content of Eco Child's Play!